Among adults, the most ideal way to get along with each other is nothing but comfort.
I received an express delivery yesterday, which is a specialty sent by a friend from her hometown.
this friend and I haven't seen each other for more than two years.
so I was a little surprised to know that she sent the package. The surprise is interspersed with a little surprise and warmth that is missed and cared for.
people who thought there would be no more intersections care about you all the time.
this feeling is really touching.
I asked her how she remembered to send me something, all the way.
"Hey, it's nothing. I just passed by that store the other day and saw a lot of people waiting in line to buy it.
I suddenly remembered that you used to like it, so I packed one for you, and I don't know if you still like it. "
I said that I still like it very much, and the taste will not change easily.
just like some people, no matter how far apart, goodbye is still familiar and not strange.
We started the topic from this, and both sides talked a lot one after another.
she told me about the experiences and experiences in her life, and I told her about the people and things around me.
across more than a thousand kilometers of mountains and rivers, we seem to be as close as we used to be.
while chatting, she suddenly said with emotion that we haven't seen each other for a long time. I really want to have a chance to sit down and meet, have a good meal and have a chat.
I said yes, it's been a long time.
"although we seldom see each other, I always remember you, and you are always in my heart." She said.
she also said that every time I update my moments, she actually sees it.
I said me, too.
although we don't keep in touch with each other often, we never go far, let alone deviate from each other and go our separate ways.
We just live in different places and experience different ebb and flow, joys and sorrows.
when the lights go out, we still look back on the same past and memories.
I often hear many people complain or miss saying that the new don't know the past and the old don't know what's going on.
in fact, you see, in this world, gathering, dissociation and separation are the norm. Like clouds in the sky, they gather and disperse, disperse and come back.
those lost friends and lovers who no longer ask questions will never disappear as long as they have been here and existed.
it's just that the fate of life is different and the path we choose is also different, so we have to say goodbye and say goodbye.In the days when there is no connection, we are all busy with our lives, and most of the time we really don't have time to care about and care too much.
some people, some feelings, really do not need to maintain all the time, deliberately manage.
like this sentence:
"it is a free wind to come and go, and those who meet will meet."
through the small half of life, has gradually become accustomed to all the encounters, there will eventually be a separate day.
if we are predestined, we will meet at the top of the mountain.
if not, life will last no more than 30,000 days, and in the end, we will all go the same way.
A relationship that can stand the test does not need to be maintained too hard.
time will not break the connection between each other, but will only make this affection deeper and deeper, like the old wine, lasting for a long time.
like Mr. he and Huang Lei.
when they met, they witnessed many important moments in each other's life, filmed together, participated in programs, sang songs, and acted in plays.
teacher he said in the program that every time he went to Mr. Huang's house, he felt as close as a family member when he went back to his own home.
every time I need Mr. Huang to help me with something, as long as he makes a phone call, he will show up and never refuse.
but they don't get together all the time.
contact only when you have something to do, and you will be fine with each other if you have nothing to do.
teacher he said:
"I also care about the people around me, but I never expect to keep anyone for a lifetime, because it's hard."
who says it's not.
in the adult world, everyone has his own karma.
Friendship or love, people get along with others, the most comfortable, the most ideal state is: far and near, closeness and casual.
sometimes, just because you don't contact doesn't mean you've forgotten.
I don't bother, I don't care, it doesn't matter.
We only need to live in fate, not in the relationship.
you see, in this lifetime, there are so many people who have known each other all their lives, but they are never familiar with them.
some people have only known each other for three or four days, but it is too late to meet each other.
the white head is as new as the old one.
among adults, the most ideal mode of getting along with each other is nothing but comfort.
Let nature take its course to contact and miss it.
you know I'm here, and I know you won't leave.
you don't need to talk every day, but no matter how far apart you are, as long as you think of each other, you will feel warm in your heart.
this kind of relationship can last longer.
what do you think?